Do you have any doubts about the kind of relationship a woman wants to develop with you? Do you feel for a long time that she just spends her time with you and that you do not get (or do not get it at all) anything more while you seek a normal or long-term relationship with all that entails?
She may is not really interested in something serious and monogamous. Or she is just terrified about the idea of commitment in general. In either cases, she will definitely display some things that we will present to you. In case that you want to know about the status of your relationship, you should definitely take a look at out guide.
She puts you on her schedule at the last minute
In other meanings, you are not what we say, her priority. On a systematic basis, she first arranges with her friends and if her plans does not come true, then she remembers you as you are a kind of a Plan B. She generally avoids planning anything with you in time.
Avoid talking about your relationship
After a respectable amount of time is he still not in the mood for conversations about where you two are going? Do you see her being forced into the idea that tomorrow – the day after tomorrow you will take a next step or she is not very clear why she is afraid of hurting you? Do not waste any more time, make it easier by telling her that you want to know what she thinks about you, so that you can decide if you want to continue investing time and energy in a relationship with her.
It always cancels at the last minute
The woman – and in general any man who is not particularly “crazy” – since he can not or does not want to make plans with you, looks for reasons to avoid them. And somehow, you find yourself in a relationship (or something) with someone who claims to have “a lot of work” and “sudden headaches” – most likely due to the stress or indifference caused by the idea of a serious relationship with you.
It only comes when you leave
When you start moving away from her, either intentionally or simply because you can’t stand it, she moves. Do you deserve something like that? If it can’t give you the kind of relationship and commitment you want, you should probably seriously consider ending it because it is a hassle. Someone who shows that she only wants you when she loses you, does not want you, feeds her ego. After the second time this happens, there is no doubt.
He does not know “details” about you
Because she simply does not care about how you drink your coffee, what food you hate, what you are allergic to, etc. She has never paid attention because she is not interested. For others, we mainly keep things that we care about.
Her plans do not include you
While he generally makes plans, you do not “see” him anywhere. She arranges future trips and activities on her own. He does not believe that you have common social obligations. And now that you remember it, the day before yesterday he told you that from the new year he is thinking of going abroad for a master’s degree.
He does not recommend you to others
She generally act like trying to hide you and does not put you in her life. She has not expressed any desire to meet you in her circle. Of course, not introducing her to her parents is not as tragic as not knowing her company, however if you have been together for more than a year and you see her freaking out even at the idea that you see her father by chance under her house, sorry, but there is an issue.
You mainly communicate with her
She does not send you the first message, nor does she often raise her hand to call you. Generally, your communication during the day is based on your own initiative. She usually “hits” at night asking the question “are you alone, do you want to come”? Well, what do you not understand?
She does not want you to leave things in her house
Although you stay in her house quite often, there is neither a toothbrush, nor any other serious personal object. This is something that significantly indicates that your presence in her space is not stable.. Every woman that likes the man she is with, will try to make him bring some of his things in her place, a type of a commitment action.
She don’t know what she wants in life and tells it
In the world we live, there is no other creature more capable of a woman in communicating his needs and desires. Women are more compulsive than men are and usually, love the programming more than you do. Especially from an early age – around 30 – they know very well if they want their life plan to include a serious commitment.
So, if your girl does not say the things in a right manner orplays it intensely undecided, two things can be happening. She either does not know what she wants or she just knows that what she wants is not you and just stays with you for her own reasons. Maybe until he finds something better? Just a matter of saying. If this is something that does not cover you, be the first to leave with your head up.
A helpful guide of all this “small” things to have in mind when you want to be sure or just have an idea about the status of your relationship. We believe that it will help you to have an idea about the real feelibgs of your other half.